It is distinctly unsettling to wish your life would go by faster.
It's one thing to have goals for the future for you to work toward in order to make yourself as happy as possible. It's another to wish away what you have right now by continuously thinking that the future will be bring you divine satisfaction, and therefore the present is somehow inferior.
Your life is every second you are alive, not just the memorable moments.
If you are at work, that is your life right then. Regardless of how mind-numbingly mundane life feels for the duration of that shift, the only way it will be a waste is if you allow yourself to adopt the mindset that you should just "wait for it to be over". That is literally saying that you do not wish to be present for every moment of the oh-so-limited time in which you are bestowed with the privilege of consciousness. You could not possibly be so audacious. You are most likely there to make money so that you can be a functional member of first-world society. You have to be there, for all intents and purposes. That job may not be the first thing you would wish to do with your time. It may not even be on the list. But you are there. And wherever you are, it is important to be present. Smile at people. Tell somebody what you like about them, for no reason other than giving them permission to do the same thing for somebody else. Compliments from people who don't owe you anything are usually the most genuine. Be aware of the thoughts inside of your own head. If there aren't any, think some. Sing songs to yourself. Feel yourself breathe. Whatever you do, don't wish for that time to be over. All of those tiny bits of time that you bide away being dissatisfied add up, and if you're not careful the compost under the sink will get clogged with all of the seconds you mistook for rotton carrots. And then the sink will explode, and your kitchen will flood, and there will be a mess everywhere. And you wouldn't want that, would you?
I think it's safe to say that someone stuck in a torture chamber is allowed to wish for their life to end faster, or to think about what's next.
ReplyDeleteI think smiling at people is one of the most important things a person can do in a day.
There is no time like the present, but I always am interested and looking towards the future.
DeleteYou have nice hair.
Thanks for letting me know about jenni's video. it was a good way to spent a minuite of my life.
I forgot to make my reply a reply. It's down there.
DeleteMost people refuse to accept reality.
DeleteYes, Riley does have nice hair. Hence why people like to pet it.
I think Riley and Jeremy should make more videos.
Yes, it is. But the fact that they're in a torture chamber is incredibly disturbing, and so it is reasonable that their thoughts would be somewhat disturbing as well, and not healthy for somebody living a healthy life to have.
ReplyDeleteIt really does hold quite a lot of impact.
People live healthy lives?
DeleteApparently.
DeleteTo Jeremy:
ReplyDeleteI look toward the future a lot too, but there's a difference between being excited for what's next, and not appreciating what's here.
You are a musical octopus (meaning you can play lots of different instruments very well).
Wasn't it, though?